
THE 5 LIES KEEPING YOU FAT, WEAK, AND STUCK
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You’re not broken. You’re not too old. You’re not beyond fixing.
But if you’re still carrying too much fat, struggling to stay consistent, and not seeing the strength or energy you want—odds are you’ve bought into at least one of these lies.
Let’s rip them apart and lay out what actually works.
Lie #1: “I Just Need to Do More Cardio”
The Truth:
You can’t out-run a bad diet—or bad programming.
Endless treadmill time might burn some calories, but it won’t fix your metabolism, build muscle, or make you harder to kill.
What to Do Instead:
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Lift heavy 3–4x/week.
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Add short, brutal HIIT sessions 2–3x/week.
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Walk daily.
That combo builds strength, cuts fat, and boosts endurance—without grinding you into the dirt.
Lie #2: “Healthy Means Low-Fat, Low-Cal, or ‘Clean’”
The Truth:
This mindset leads to under-eating, muscle loss, and binge cycles.
You don’t need to fear carbs or fats. You need to control your calories, hit your protein target, and fuel your training.
What to Do Instead:
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Eat at least 0.8–1g of protein per pound of bodyweight.
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Track your food for a few weeks—know what’s really going in.
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Prioritize real food, but don’t get scared of the occasional burger or dark chocolate.
Lie #3: “I’m Too Old to Get in Shape”
The Truth:
You’re too soft on yourself.
You may not recover like a 20-year-old, but you absolutely can get leaner, stronger, and more capable in your 30s, 40s, 50s—and beyond. The key is smart programming and consistency.
What to Do Instead:
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Focus on compound lifts and full-body training.
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Warm up like it matters (because it does).
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Sleep like it’s your job.
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Don’t chase PRs every week—chase progress you can sustain.
Lie #4: “I Just Need to Find the Right Plan”
The Truth:
You’ve had the right plan before—you just didn’t stick to it.
There’s no perfect program. There’s only the one you follow long enough to get results. Consistency trumps variety, novelty, and shiny-object syndrome every single time.
What to Do Instead:
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Pick a strength-focused plan and follow it for 12+ weeks.
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Stop jumping from app to app or workout to workout.
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Measure your food, track your lifts, review your progress.
Lie #5: “I’ll Start When Life Calms Down”
The Truth:
Life isn’t going to “calm down.” Ever.
Your job, your kids, your stress—that’s your battlefield. And your body won’t wait for ideal conditions. Every day you delay is one more day you’re not showing up for yourself or the people who count on you.
What to Do Instead:
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Block 30–45 minutes, 3–5x/week.
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Train in your garage, office, basement, or backyard.
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Keep meals simple and repeatable.
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Build systems, not willpower.
Final Word
You’ve been lied to.
Sold gimmicks.
Distracted by influencers.
But the truth isn’t complicated:
Lift heavy. Eat like a grown man. Sleep like it matters. Repeat until you win.
You don’t need to be perfect. You just need to stop lying to yourself and start showing up.
This is ApexFit.
Cut the excuses. Crush the lies. Rebuild the man.